"The entire world is my family..."

In an increasingly materialistic world, her smile, grace and style might have been overlooked and abandoned, but otherwise these qualities should have been treasured.
Sabina Bareh, bejeweled with her million-dollar smile giggles, saying she is turning 100 years of age in the next two months and can’t hide her excitement as a child whose birthday is approaching. She and her friends are going to celebrate the occasion in a big way and Bareh can’t wait for that day.
Wearing a crochet wool scarp, Bareh’s wrinkled face speaks of the numerous journeys of life she has traveled. “I am very happy and satisfied now,” she says after spending close to 22 years at the Mercy Home, a centre for the elderly people here.
She gets pensive speaking about her family and why she turned up in the home for the elderly in the first place. “I have forgotten everything, now I am happy,” she repeats sitting on her bed and ironing her handkerchief softly with her hand, as though straightening the rough edges of life.
Bareh, there are scores of other elderly people abandoned by their loved ones lodged in the Home. None though wants to return and very few have complains about their past. They seem to have reconciled with their life and wants to move ahead.
In India, there are 81 million people over the age of 60 years. The figure is expected to rise to 113 million by 2016 and 179 million by 2026.
Back at the Mercy Home, as the petite Bareh speaks, resident inmates join in to interpret her somewhat stuttering speech. She however holds them back with her hand and her charismatic smile and grace. “Namdong…I come from Namdong village,” is what could be gathered.
“She still can cut betel nuts with a knife and she is one of the neatest inmates here. She is sweet,” another inmate and a government pensioner says in chaste English. This spinster inmate, who requested anonymity, worked for a renowned girls’ public school and taught them culinary and etiquette. But, she was left at the home by her relations a few months back.
Lala Singh Sonar, another resident inmate and a bachelor walks with a limp after an accident that left him jobless as a cowherd. “I don’t want to go to my brothers I would only be a burden. I am only sad that my employer did not help me with my job after serving for years,” he rues and walked away to witness a function organized for the elderly on occasion of International Day for the Elderly in the Home.
Everyday, the inmates at the 62-bedded Home chips in to help the staffs. “They do gardening, cut vegetables for the kitchen and do other minor works if their health permits,” Sister Ann, in-charge of the Home said.
While returning from the Home, Bareh once again invited to come for her birthday, she wanted the guest list to increase - probably wanting the entire world to be her family.